Developing Good Self-Esteem by R E. Smith

 

Be The Best You

 Humans are created in the image and likeness of God which means that we are set apart and endowed with special gifts and responsibilities as stated in the book of Genesis. These special gifts and responsibilities are what make us who we are and shape the world around us and our life experiences allow us to view life from different perspectives. However, there is a huge obstacle that stands in the way of our destiny and that is the Inferiority Complex to put in simple low self-esteem. In this lesson, we will define self-esteem and exam three ways to overcome low self-esteem.

What is low self-esteem?

 Low self-esteem refers to lacking self-confidence which manifests as self-doubt, little to no self-respect, and love for one's self. This is often evident in individuals going through an identity crisis and is common to all age groups some more prominent than others.

The Scope

Low self-esteem is a battle with oneself and the main factor that contribute to a person developing this inferior complex. It can stem from discrimination, bullying, peer pressure, and pop culture. This is because society has highlight what they deemed to be ideal or best as it relates to general appearance and personality. Therefore a lot of strain is placed on individuals to try and fit the status quo and to be like the superficial idols that they see in mainstream media not realizing that most of what they see is an act and purely for entertainment purposes. This has lead to a generation of individuals changing their God give characteristics and physical features while secretly hating who they are becoming. 

Overcoming low self-esteem

To overcome this psycho-social phenomenon we must begin to think highly of ourselves and follow these basic tips which will hopefully help us to appreciate who we are as a person. 

• Compliment Yourself

When you wake up in the morning and before you go to your bed at night you must take a few seconds to look in the mirror and compliment yourself. Don't forget that we are beautifully and wonderfully made by God.

• Be Selective

Be cautious about who you chose as friends and allow in your circle exercise wisdom and restraint to also know that not every environment will enrich you as a person. Try to be around people who value and appreciate you for who you are and will look beyond the physical, who will look beyond your socioeconomic status and appreciate you for the value you bring to the table.

• Be Appreciative

Learn to appreciate and celebrate the simple things in life because these are often our blessings and our breakthrough. Take the small victories that come and all yourself to feel good about your accomplishments and never feel bad that you did something good to please others or to satisfy someone else's ego. 

Conclusion

When we examine today's society it is quite clear that those who suffer from low self-esteem are a result of criticism and discrimination.  This often manifests in many forms such as family, friends, and society. Try not to focus on fitting in but remember that you have a purpose. God has created us for a reason and we must not stand in the way of our success but Let us instead meditate on the word of Ephesians 1: 11 " Before we were even born, he gave us our destiny; that we would fulfill the plan of God who always accomplishes every purpose and plan in his heart" .

 

Be Confident, Be Bold, and Be an Overcomer of self-doubt

        By R. E Smith